Most of us experience dissatisfaction with our partner from time to time, which results in quarrels. But what if you constantly quarrel with your partner? Then we may be talking about psychological incompatibility. Regardless of our physical similarities and similarity of physiological processes, each person has their own set of established psychological characteristics and habits. We differ from each other in unique temperament and character, metabolic rate, relaxation methods and the speed of restoration of physiological resources. Because of this, you may simply not want to share your partners' plans or put up with their daily routine.
Find out your compatibility level!
Let's assume that the spouses have the same temperament, similar habits and daily routine. In this case, the chances of mutual irritation for them are significantly reduced. Otherwise, the couple will have to make every effort to calmly react to each other's different behavior.
The energetic and psychological compatibility of a couple depends on the extent to which each of the partners accepts the personal qualities of their chosen one.
By answering the test questions, you will find out how compatible you and your partner are in everyday life and what components of the relationship you need to improve to achieve a harmonious balance.
Instruction
You will be offered 30 simple statements regarding your personal qualities and traits. There are no right or wrong answers, just decide honestly whether you agree or disagree with each point.
Please note that this test is presented for educational purposes only, and its questions and results should in no way be construed as specialist advice or recommendations of any kind.
1. Sometimes my partner annoys me (makes me angry) by trying to impose a housekeeping style or approach to family responsibilities.
2. A child strengthens (could have strengthened) our marriage.
3. Mainly, our ideas about spending free time coincide.
4. With age, a character of one of us (or both) decays.
5. My spouse and I have a very similar thinking style: usually, we have the same understanding of phenomena, facts, prerequisites, and effects.
6. My partner very rarely instructs me (pulls me up, lecture) against my will.
7. In general, my spouse and I have different ideas about family life values.
8. The way a spouse spends their free time definitely strengthens our family.
9. Differences in our characters make it difficult to understand each other.
10. Sometimes my spouse makes me unhappy if they find it difficult to grasp my thought.